I love country music y'all as noted. There's a fairly new song from country-pop singer Kelsea Ballerini called Peter Pan. It's about a guy who's "never gonna grow up , never gonna be a man."
What does it mean to " be a man?"
Well, in the Bible Paul says to us Christian guys and gals in 1st Corinthians 13:11 that " When i was a child, I talked like a child, Thought like a child, and reasoned like a child. When I was a man I put away childish things." Now I shall try to go into that now. Well, first of all I will start by saying that the ways us guys treat women can be childish and how with God's help change that. Admit it, most guys sometimes see a girl and have sexual thoughts. It's even harder in relationships. More often than not we end up " breaking up." with the girl. If you just act thoughtlessly with her and start sleeping with her, especally if it is a biblical relationship between 2 Christians, you make it unbiblical and you have defiled the gir'ls body and sinned against God. You could possibly make her pregnant and that could lead to her aborting the child which is murder. If you get into that state here are the 2 things you should do: Not dump her and the baby, but support her. However do not screw up with her again unless you get married to her and after that you can screw up with her and truly love her. Remember our bodies are God's temple. ( 1st Corinthians 6:19-20). overall this first part of this article is don't follow youthful passions over girls. ( 2nd Timothy 2:22 ) and don't date non Christian girls also.
To be continued....